In 2007, I had to delete over half of my friends on myspace {personal acc't}. Why? Well, people have too much to do in today's time to think about how you are, sending wishes to someone, and in general just to see how you are. Well, as of December 02, 2009, it has occurred yet again. I have given out warnings such as no emails, IM's, comments equal being deleted. Does a person understand what that means from me? It means I will not speak to you for whatever reason.
It is not being selfish--but putting up a boundary---a collegue of mine once said, "If the person is not responding to you usually means they are sending out a clear signal". Yes, while it may intially hurt--I get over it and begin to get very angry. I know we are in the computer age---but humans are behind those computers. They don't post on their own!
In going back to the original sentence---yes, I will be doing away with friends who do not check to see how I am doing. I send out emails, comments, ectera.......well, no more. Why should I waste my energy on people who don't take time out to think about others.
So, my personal myspace---deleted people.....
Twitter----deleted people
Facebook {don't know the addy}----they are all new--but time will tell!
personal email----next task and is #1
address book---you guessed it and #2
I am tired of only one person asking anything about me when I know over 75 people...that's just sad and really pathetic. That's my new year's resolution----EARLY!
If people are mad, offended, and want to start drama----well go ahead......I won't be around to hear it. Stress free life----that's what I live by.
Oh, the boyfriend/beau......yes, he is one of these people, and will get the same treatment as I have received from him. No contact and ignored!!
